I’m a bit out of your usual demographic, age-wise (I’m 70), but I am still an avid reader. My cousin and I have flirted and joked about getting it on together for about 50 years or more. Now she’s divorced and having the time of her life. The other day, she
Savage Love: Old but alive
I’m a bit out of your usual demographic, age-wise (I’m 70), but I am still an avid reader. My cousin and I have flirted and joked about getting...
Not all menz
Amid the #YesAllWomen campaign, Dan invites women to share their stories of men who have done the right thing.
Savage Love: Not All Menz
In the wake of the killings at Isla Vista, and all the #YesAllWomen and #NotAllMen hashtag campaigns, I want a change in the dialogue. I want to...
Savage Love: Hopes and dreams
I am currently a senior in high school, but come Saturday, I will be a high-school grad! (Fuck yeah!) The only thing I’m worried about besides my hopes and dreams and making it in the real world? My sex life. I’m a virgin. When I go online, I see all my fri
Bi and Bi
biphobia will continue to thrive so long as the majority of bisexuals remain closeted. That’s just a fact.
Savage Love: Bi and Bi
I’ve heard your calls for bisexuals to come out to their friends and family, and I think it’s a great idea. Here’s my conundrum: I’m not sure I technically classify as...
Webcamming—aka camwhoring—is widely regarded as the safest form of sex work.
Savage Love: Virgin bro
My brother is 22 years old and mentally ill with social anxiety on the scale of agoraphobia (officially diagnosed). He’s made...
Savage Love: Girls
I’m a 26-year-old girl, and my boyfriend is bi. I assumed he would be less jealous than the average man. After all, a lot of bi men have faced irrational jealousy...
I’m a 26-year-old girl, and my boyfriend is bi. I assumed he would be less jealous than the average man, but my BF is more jealous than average. He accuses me of having slept with my male friends in the past. He makes negative comments about how many people
Bye Bi Douchebag
Your boyfriend is not insecure, TIRED, your boyfriend is an asshole.
Straight female with a question. It’s about something that sometimes happens to me that I’ve never really told anyone about because it’s so weird and gross. It involves my bowel movements, so it’s not very sexy. (No offense to scat lovers, but I have zero i
Poop-gasms? Spooch? This and more in a particularly graphic edition of Savage Love.
Savage Love: Moist Toilette
Straight female with a question. It’s about something that sometimes happens to me that I’ve never really told anyone about because it’s so...
“The same creeps, jerks, and assholes on standard dating sites are on BDSM-centric sites.”
I’m a straight 24-year-old female, and I just recently lost my virginity. I’ve had sex only three times and have found each time to be incredibly painful – even when the guy’s just using his fingers. I’ve always been extremely sensitive. In the past, I’v