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  • Savage Love | 7/30/2014
  • Cyber infidelity or harmless online flirtations? The boys in the bandwidth | 7/23/2014
  • Savage Love | 7/23/2014
  • Savage Love: The Boys in the Bandwidth I am a gay man and have been in a relationship with my GGG boyfriend for more than three years. We are in our early 20s and have a... | 7/23/2014
  • Are straight guys allowed in gay clubs? Also, a woman is jealous of her boyfriend's dog and a man is dating an escort. | 7/15/2014
  • Savage Love | 7/16/2014
  • Savage Love: Shorties Two questions, Dan. 1. Recently, I went to a bar with my brother and encountered a friend from high school. My brother told me that... | 7/16/2014
  • More advice on dominatrixes, snooping, and oral Over and domme | 7/7/2014
  • The link between social media and depression Hopes and dreams. | 6/9/2014
  • Savage Love | 7/9/2014
  • Savage Love: Over and Domme I am a straight female who was a dominatrix for a while—and out of all the jobs I’ve had, I loved it the most. But professional dommes aren’t immune... | 7/9/2014
  • Finding that perfect third for that threesome Unicorn hunters | 7/1/2014
  • Savage Love: Unicorn Hunters I am a single woman, 31, in LA, and on OkCupid. (We all are.) I’ve gotten a number of unicorn requests. (Maybe because I mention being a subscriber to the... | 7/2/2014
  • Savage Love | 7/2/2014
  • Kinky senior cousins, swingers got pregnant Old times | 6/24/2014
  • Savage Love I’m a bit out of your usual demographic, age-wise (I’m 70), but I am still an avid reader. My cousin and I have flirted and joked about getting it on together for about 50 years or more. Now she’s divorced and having the time of her life. The other day, she | 6/25/2014
  • Savage Love: Old but alive I’m a bit out of your usual demographic, age-wise (I’m 70), but I am still an avid reader. My cousin and I have flirted and joked about getting... | 6/25/2014
  • Not all menz Amid the #YesAllWomen campaign, Dan invites women to share their stories of men who have done the right thing. | 6/16/2014
  • Savage Love: Not All Menz In the wake of the killings at Isla Vista, and all the #YesAllWomen and #NotAllMen hashtag campaigns, I want a change in the dialogue. I want to... | 6/18/2014
  • Savage Love | 6/18/2014
  • Savage Love | 6/11/2014
  • Savage Love: Hopes and dreams I am currently a senior in high school, but come Saturday, I will be a high-school grad! (Fuck yeah!) The only thing I’m worried about besides my hopes and dreams and making it in the real world? My sex life. I’m a virgin. When I go online, I see all my fri | 6/11/2014
  • Savage Love Hopes and Dreams | 6/9/2014
  • Savage Love | 6/4/2014
  • Make the Call Unless you’ve taken shits that have jumped out of the toilet and jammed themselves back into your ass, you really don’t know what it’s like to get buttfucked. | 6/4/2014
  • Savage Love: Make the call I’ve got a question I doubt you’ve ever gotten before. It has a bit of everything: sex-work etiquette, long-distance phone interaction and a het cis chick... | 6/4/2014
  • A guy shares a phone number with a sex worker Make the call. | 6/2/2014
  • Shower endower Big issues arise in the locker room. | 5/27/2014
  • Savage Love | 5/28/2014
  • How to re-route a pee hole A hole new world. | 5/19/2014
  • Savage Love: Big issue I’m a 25-year-old lesbian, and I live with my partner of two years. My family is coming to visit from Texas, where they are part of a... | 5/28/2014
  • Big Issues What I’m about to propose may seem elaborate, QPQ, but bear this in mind while you read my advice: Marijuana is legal where I live. | 5/28/2014
  • Savage Love: A hole new world I am a genetic male with recurrent questions about my gender identity. Straddling desires to maintain my stature in the professional world, keep my wife at... | 5/21/2014
  • Savage Love | 5/21/2014
  • A Hole New World After you have this done, you’ll not only be peeing sitting down, you’ll also be coming all over the back of your sack. | 5/21/2014
  • Savage Love: Hookup Shook Up I’m a 21-year-old straight male, and I’m mildly autistic. This means that I have difficulty picking up on social cues. I’ve learned to manage my disability... | 5/14/2014
  • Savage Love | 5/14/2014
  • Dan helps an autistic dude pick up social cues Hookup shook up. | 5/13/2014
  • Shameful Erection Just because your dick got hard doesn’t mean you were enjoying yourself. | 5/14/2014
  • FWBs, husbands who watch trans porn, and more Boundary disputes. | 5/5/2014
  • Savage Love: Noise Makers I’m a 26-year-old lesbian 18 months out of an eight-year relationship. She was my first girlfriend. I do not want to be in another... | 5/7/2014
  • Savage Love | 5/7/2014
  • Friends with Drawbacks People have been known to develop like/love feelings for folks they’re fucking on a regular basis. | 5/7/2014
  • Savage Love | 4/30/2014
  • Bi and Bi biphobia will continue to thrive so long as the majority of bisexuals remain closeted. That’s just a fact. | 4/30/2014
  • Savage Love: Bi and Bi I’ve heard your calls for bisexuals to come out to their friends and family, and I think it’s a great idea. Here’s my conundrum: I’m not sure I technically classify as... | 4/30/2014
  • Bi-sexual, but hetero-amorous Bi and bi. | 4/29/2014
  • Cams and panties Web-camming sons, panty-selling daughters (and tips on how to fall asleep). | 4/22/2014
  • Savage Love | 4/23/2014
  • Cam Scam? Webcamming—aka camwhoring—is widely regarded as the safest form of sex work. | 4/23/2014
  • Savage Love: Virgin bro My brother is 22 years old and mentally ill with social anxiety on the scale of agoraphobia (officially diagnosed). He’s made... | 4/23/2014
  • Savage Love: Girls I’m a 26-year-old girl, and my boyfriend is bi. I assumed he would be less jealous than the average man. After all, a lot of bi men have faced irrational jealousy... | 4/16/2014
  • Savage Love I’m a 26-year-old girl, and my boyfriend is bi. I assumed he would be less jealous than the average man, but my BF is more jealous than average. He accuses me of having slept with my male friends in the past. He makes negative comments about how many people | 4/16/2014
  • Bye Bi Douchebag Your boyfriend is not insecure, TIRED, your boyfriend is an asshole. | 4/16/2014
  • Dan Savage takes questions from just the ladies Girls. | 4/14/2014
  • Dan Savage advises on when it's OK to deceive Thrills and spills. | 4/9/2014
  • Savage Love | 4/9/2014
  • Savage Love Geezers gone wild | 4/9/2014
  • Savage Love: Thrills and Spills I’m an old guy, fast approaching geezerdom. After 45 years of marriage to the same woman, the sex has fallen off to zero. We otherwise have a... | 4/9/2014
  • When should a transgender person disclose? Also some threeway calculations. | 4/2/2014
  • Savage Love Trans guys have amazing dicks that are different from cis guys’ dicks—how does she know she won’t like it or even prefer it? | 4/2/2014
  • Savage Love | 4/2/2014
  • Savage Love: Disclosing My boyfriend of three months, “Marcus,” told me last week that he is a trans man. He has performed oral sex on me and fingered me, but he never... | 4/2/2014
  • Savage Love Savage Live | 3/26/2014
  • Savage Love: Noise Makers READERS: A crowd of smart, engaged students packed a theater for Savage Love Live at Centenary College of Louisiana last week. Centenary is... | 3/26/2014
  • Bonus questions from Savage Love Live College try. | 3/26/2014
  • Savage Love | 3/26/2014
  • Savage Love: Distressed Dad I am a liberal parent. I raised a daughter who is bi and poly. I always thought that I could accept anything that parenthood might throw at me. I knew that... | 3/19/2014
  • Pokémonster? What might cause a young man to take a sexual interest in Pokémon? | 3/19/2014
  • Savage Love | 3/19/2014
  • Liberal dad can't deal with son's Pokémon fetish Distressed dad. | 3/17/2014
  • Savage Love It doesn’t sound like being alone or your terminal illness are the only reasons you’re hesitating to file those divorce papers. It sounds to me like you love your wife.? | 3/12/2014
  • Savage Love | 3/12/2014
  • A terminally ill guy loves his cheating wife Plus advice for BDSM kinksters who don't want sex and a warning about STDs and eyeballs. | 3/10/2014
  • Savage Love: Faithful I have a slowly terminal disease and don’t have more than five or six years left. I haven’t told my wife, which brings me to my problem. We had... | 3/12/2014
  • Savage Love Exciting Shit Happens | 3/5/2014
  • Savage Love Straight female with a question. It’s about something that sometimes happens to me that I’ve never really told anyone about because it’s so weird and gross. It involves my bowel movements, so it’s not very sexy. (No offense to scat lovers, but I have zero i | 3/5/2014
  • Toilet talk Poop-gasms? Spooch? This and more in a particularly graphic edition of Savage Love. | 3/3/2014
  • Savage Love: Moist Toilette Straight female with a question. It’s about something that sometimes happens to me that I’ve never really told anyone about because it’s so... | 3/5/2014
  • Advice for depressed virgins, bi girls in hetero relationships Anger issues. | 2/26/2014
  • Savage Love: Anger Issues I’m 21 and still a virgin. I also have depression. I’m not bad-looking. I work out and generally keep people laughing. I got... | 2/26/2014
  • 21, Sad, and Angry I’m guessing you came across as angry and potentially violent because you are angry and potentially violent. | 2/26/2014
  • Savage Love | 2/26/2014
  • Dan Savage delves into the cuckold fetish Take my wife, please. | 2/19/2014
  • Savage Love: Cuck you I am a straight male, married to a woman for 25 years. Our marriage started to go sour about 14 years ago. Sex was infrequent and stultifying. Finally, when... | 2/19/2014
  • Savage Love | 2/19/2014
  • Cuck You If deep-throating were dangerous—if cocks were doing permanent damage to throats— I would’ve heard about it by now. | 2/19/2014
  • Advice for pansexuals, schlumpy guys and more Pannies and forties. | 2/12/2014
  • Savage Love | 2/12/2014
  • Savage Love: Pannies I am an 18-year-old pansexual girl. I’m currently in a relationship with a guy. He is a bit younger, though mature for his age. We get along... | 2/12/2014
  • Hands On Masturbation is a pleasurable friend that doesn’t judge you or shame you. | 2/12/2014
  • Savage Love | 2/5/2014
  • Dildonics What's the best way to sanitize a latex dildo? Plus more sexual quandaries. | 2/5/2014
  • Savage Love: Dildonics What is the best way to sanitize a latex dildo? At least I think it’s a latex dildo. I actually don’t know. I had a yeast infection a few months... | 2/5/2014
  • Dil’ Pickle You don’t have to settle for shitty, dangerous, potentially toxic sex toys. | 2/5/2014
  • Savage Love: Working the Kinks Out I’m what was once quaintly called a “woman of a certain age” who started reading your column to broaden my horizons. As a result, some curiosities... | 1/29/2014
  • Dan Savage Discusses Domination Finding people who are into BDSM, domming when you're a sub, how much to spend on BDSM and more. | 1/29/2014
  • Savage Love | 1/29/2014
  • King Something “The same creeps, jerks, and assholes on standard dating sites are on BDSM-centric sites.” | 1/29/2014
  • Savage Love I’m a straight 24-year-old female, and I just recently lost my virginity. I’ve had sex only three times and have found each time to be incredibly painful – even when the guy’s just using his fingers. I’ve always been extremely sensitive. In the past, I’v | 1/22/2014